Alex quit his graphic design job last year to become an "influencer." He posts outfit pics, gym selfies, and food shots nonstop. We used to cook dinners together, hike on weekends, and talk for hours. Now, he films everything for TikTok or Instagram Reels
It feels like he ignores me completely.
On date nights he’s live-streaming instead of holding my hand, and our sex life is dead because he’s always too busy editing videos.
I’ve begged him to cut back. He promised after our last fight but posted 15 stories during my birthday dinner. I snapped, grabbed his phone while he slept, and deleted Instagram, TikTok, and Twitter. He woke up furious, called me controlling, and slept on the couch. Now he’s talking about moving out.
Friends say I overstepped his privacy; his sister called me jealous.
I feel guilty but desperate; our relationship is hanging by a thread and he’s back on the old accounts already by logging into his computer.
So, BonJourno.com readers, AITA?
